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Registered: January 1, 2009 | Reputation: | Posts: 3,087 |
| Posted: | | | | Stay strong. My thoughts are with you and your family. It's always sad to hear such things. |
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Registered: March 13, 2007 | Reputation: | Posts: 17,334 |
| Posted: | | | | My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. | | | Pete |
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Registered: March 10, 2009 | Posts: 2,248 |
| Posted: | | | | Quoting TheMadMartian: Quote: Quoting FilmAlba:
Quote: Well i have always thought it helps to talk about things otherwise it just eats you up inside and that's fine if you wish to use me as your human punching bag feel free to pile on as much verbal abuse as you want i don't mind.
I don't change what's happen to you and where your life is but by talking about things you get a more clear focus and as result you resolve things better. You don't know Cliff and, unless I missed something, you are not a psychologist. That being the case, your best option...as every other person in this thread has demonstrated...is to simply offer your condolences and move on. If you can't do that, then you shouldn't say anything at all. Well one since when was it a requirement if you want to talk about something the person you talk to has to have a degree in psychology. Two why post about something like this if your not reaching out. And three if is a sensitive a topic why post it in the first place. Apart from that hope it gets better soon for you. | | | Last edited: by ShinyDiscGuy |
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Registered: December 13, 2008 | Reputation: | Posts: 334 |
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Registered: March 13, 2007 | Reputation: | Posts: 13,202 |
| Posted: | | | | All I can say is "Wow." @ Cliff, I am sorry for your loss. I know it can be hard, but stay strong. | | | No dictator, no invader can hold an imprisoned population by force of arms forever. There is no greater power in the universe than the need for freedom. Against this power, governments and tyrants and armies cannot stand. The Centauri learned this lesson once. We will teach it to them again. Though it take a thousand years, we will be free. - Citizen G'Kar | | | Last edited: by TheMadMartian |
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Registered: May 8, 2007 | Posts: 270 |
| Posted: | | | | Quoting FilmAlba: Quote: Quoting TheMadMartian:
Quote: Quoting FilmAlba:
Quote: Well i have always thought it helps to talk about things otherwise it just eats you up inside and that's fine if you wish to use me as your human punching bag feel free to pile on as much verbal abuse as you want i don't mind.
I don't change what's happen to you and where your life is but by talking about things you get a more clear focus and as result you resolve things better. You don't know Cliff and, unless I missed something, you are not a psychologist. That being the case, your best option...as every other person in this thread has demonstrated...is to simply offer your condolences and move on. If you can't do that, then you shouldn't say anything at all.
Well one since when was it a requirement if you want to talk about something the person you talk to has to have a degree in psychology. Two why post about something like this if your not reaching out.
And three if is a sensitive a topic why post it in the first place. Apart from that hope it gets better soon for you. Forum Moderator: REMOVED | | | Jim
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Registered: May 19, 2007 | Reputation: | Posts: 5,917 |
| Posted: | | | | FilmAlba: We all will work out our issues in our own way. We're all different and react to stress and pain differently. What may work for you may or may not work for another.
Cliff: Hang in there.... |
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Registered: March 13, 2007 | Posts: 360 |
| Posted: | | | | Cliff, Hang in there. It is a hard thing to go through and I understand the feelings you are dealing with. I lost my daughter 21 years ago and to this day I have a hard time when the date comes around. Time does heal but you never forget. My prayers are with you and your family at your time of loss. |
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Registered: March 10, 2009 | Posts: 2,248 |
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Registered: March 13, 2007 | Reputation: | Posts: 13,202 |
| Posted: | | | | You were called two names, both of which fit quite well as you have just demonstrated with your last post, not all the names under the sun. Time to 'man up' and just let it go. | | | No dictator, no invader can hold an imprisoned population by force of arms forever. There is no greater power in the universe than the need for freedom. Against this power, governments and tyrants and armies cannot stand. The Centauri learned this lesson once. We will teach it to them again. Though it take a thousand years, we will be free. - Citizen G'Kar | | | Last edited: by TheMadMartian |
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Registered: March 10, 2009 | Posts: 2,248 |
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Registered: March 19, 2007 | Reputation: | Posts: 6,018 |
| Posted: | | | | You've got no reason whatsoever to start and insult Cliff. Moderation, PLEASE! | | | Last edited: by dee1959jay |
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Registered: May 19, 2007 | Reputation: | Posts: 6,730 |
| Posted: | | | | Cliff, let me express my deepest sympathy for you and your familly. Be assured that there are better times to come. | | | It all seems so stupid, it makes me want to give up! But why should I give up, when it all seems so stupid?
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Registered: March 10, 2009 | Posts: 2,248 |
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Registered: March 13, 2007 | Reputation: | Posts: 13,202 |
| Posted: | | | | Come on Ken...where is the ban button? Enough is enough. | | | No dictator, no invader can hold an imprisoned population by force of arms forever. There is no greater power in the universe than the need for freedom. Against this power, governments and tyrants and armies cannot stand. The Centauri learned this lesson once. We will teach it to them again. Though it take a thousand years, we will be free. - Citizen G'Kar |
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Registered: March 10, 2009 | Posts: 2,248 |
| Posted: | | | | Quoting TheMadMartian: Quote: Come on Ken...where is the ban button? Enough is enough. Here's what i originally said Quote: Im confused exactly what is the problem here? Do you not think it would be more productive to talk about the issue at hand than come across as all depressive.
Life is not perfect but it's our resolve that matters in the face of the most make or break moments of it. Now i was confused by his original post cause it was vague then i got that PM. Excuse me but Forum Moderator: REMOVED | | | Last edited: by Forum Moderator |
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